• Welcome to my site!

    I'm so excited you visited my website! Thank you for taking time to learn about me and my passion.

    I created this website to promote awareness regarding Domestic Violence, Workplace Violence, Sexual Harassment, Sexual Assault and other forms of Abuse. As you explore, you’ll quickly find I’m a little unconventional with how I promote awareness. I try to educate people through my various literary works and community relations.

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    Book Trailer

    My fabulous book trailer will be out soon! In the meantime, I’m supercharged and ready to introduce you to my latest literary works! I can’t wait to see you at one of my upcoming guest speaking or book signing events. This is when I really get to share with you, how my success began with understanding it was OK to share my story.

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    Want to see me in person, ask questions, or listen to my book readings? Check out my schedule to find out where I will pop up next.

  • Author Inspiration

    My inspiration, those that are not strong enough to speak for themselves. My goal is to bring awareness and education to Domestic Violence, Workplace Violence, Sexual Harassment, Sexual Assault and other forms of Abuse. For businesses, I assist decision-makers with increasing their workplace environments by addressing workplace relations. The aim is to help leaders understand the current company environment by utilizing measurements to identify affecting factors, provide recommendations, and implement resolution i.e. education, referrals, etc. For individuals, I encourage a positive journey of self-discovery and personal development which focuses on the total aspects of self-awareness: Physical, Mental, Emotional and Spiritual. But mostly, helping victims comprehend, It’s OK to Tell THEIR Story!

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    Be mad, get angry, be frustrated...but then let God handle it. Read more

    About the Author

    GWENDOLEN WILDER is a United States Air Force retired Veteran, who served twenty-one honorable years in the military, both domestically and internationally. Prior to retirement, Gwendolen started and ran a successful multi-million dollar global business providing alternate dispute resolution, equal opportunity investigation/counseling, and training to government and civilian companies. During her 27 year professional journey, Gwendolen has carried the titles of Applied Behavioral Analysis Tutoring Therapist, Rape Crisis Center Hotline Operator, Mediator, Mediation Trainer, Sexual Harassment Compliance Training Instructor, EO Counselor and Investigator, and Instructional Trainer, providing education in the aforementioned specialties.

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    VIP Book Club

    Welcome to my VIP Book Club! There are loads of advantages and FREE STUFF for joining. Registration will open February 1, 2017. I can't think of a better way to start the new year! But, be quick-registration will only be available for 7 days! Email me today, to add your name to the waiting list!
    Let's drink, chat and inspire positive business and individual health and wellness. Once a month I’ll enlighten you with my two cents on various individual and workplace topics. But instead of being crazy formal, I’m going to chillax, have a glass of Vino (I suggest you do as well) and just talk to you as if I would with one of my friends. I'd love to hear your thoughts, answer your questions and inspire change. Join the online book club TODAY!
    There are 4 subscription options: Plus Package which is 1 month ($37), Prime Package which is 3 months ($49), Premier Package which is 6 months ($54) or the Platinum Package which is 12 months ($64). If you register before April 1, 2017 you will lock in the above registration price for the lifetime of the membership. So regardless of price increases; you are golden. To purchase visit the website products and services menu. The VIP Book Club Membership fee covers monthly rewards package which includes, but certainly is not limited to the following
    (packages vary):

    • Closed Facebook Group (Author Q&A Session)
    • Free inspirational quote images (New quote added monthly)
    • Wine pairing suggestions for my books (Reading and wine are awesome)
    • Free Book Club Journal (One per subscription-designed specifically for VIP Book Club)
    • Free gift giveaways (One lucky reader selected monthly during Facebook Group must be present to win)
    • Free Masterclass Bundle access (training and handouts)
    • Free Expert Training (New speaker monthly)
    • Reader publicity (One lucky reader featured on website monthly)
    • Free Luxurious Reader gift (One gift per subscription value $125)
    • VIP Event Discounts (Discounts to all events during subscription, advance notice to special events and products)

  • Main Products Overview

    It's OK To Tell My Story

    Pondering how my Non-Fictional books can help you say, "My Success Begins With Me!" Wondering how my Fictional characters learned, "It's OK To Tell My Story"-Buy The Book TODAY!

    Price: Hardcover $34.99, Softcover $24.99,
    Kindle $14.99
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    The Living, Laughing & Loving Gratitude Journal

    is an excellent accompaniment to the fictional books and Self-Management series. I realized first-hand, the pathway to self-awareness is challenging.

    Price: $12.99
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    Love Yourself Music

    These fast paced dance songs are great for inspiration, working out, being focused and getting your mind right for whatever task is at hand.

    Price: $ 20.00
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    Mindful Meditation

    These calming songs are great for meditation, relaxation, inspiration or just chilling on the patio with a nice glass of vino.

    Price: $ 20.00
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    Amazing and unique #IT'SOKTOTELLMYSTORY T-Shirt. Great way for family, friends and co-workers to support survivors and let them know, It's OK to Tell My Story.

    Price: $ 12:00 - $22;00
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    Bath Salt Variety Pack

    Bath Salt Variety Pack: Featuring a selection of our signature Zen Bath Salts Collection: Focus, Immunity, Cloud 9, Exhale, Invigorate, and Tranquility

    Price: $ 10:00
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    Butterfly Bookmark

    Butterfly bookmarks are cute and useful. They save shortcuts to your favorite pages and help you navigate to them in seconds. Just plant the entire bookmark, water and enjoy your wildflowers.

    Price: $ .099
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    Deluxe Spa Basket

    Embroidered waffle weave, robe, screen printed slippers, essential oil infused bath bomb & bar soap, 8 oz. lotion, and 4oz essential oil diffuser with diffuser reeds in a 21"x15" wicker gift basket.

    Price: $ 130.00
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  • Services List

    • Community Relations
    • Consultations, Book Signing & Guest Appearance Request
    • VIP Book Club Membership
    • Masterclasses (FREE)
    • Domestic Violence Awareness
    • Individual Self-Management Courses
    • Workplace Relations Courses
    • Workplace & Domestic Violence Seminars
    • Workplace Teambuilding
    • Workplace Dispute Prevention Plans

    Sucess Center

    This is a behind the scenes all access client preview of the quality level of service and training you can expect to experience.

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    Wondering what, I’ve been doing? Check out my latest achievements here. I am humbled, grateful and appreciate the blessings to be featured. I do it all for my readers-Love you all!

    It' time for the holdidays...issue1
    OK, one thing you need to know about me…I love writing, reading and wine! Preferably red and dry. So, I thought what better way to include potential book readers than sharing a piece of my VIP Book Club discussions. So, kick back with your favorite glass of vino and let’s enjoy some good conversation.

    One of my missions is to always give back to the community. I truly believe that if we give-we will receive! I love making others happy and watching my efforts increase individuals and businesses in a positive way. For me, it’s all full circle now-My Story will now excel someone else’s success-Love it!
  • New Connections

    I can’t do everything and be everywhere. Lucky for me, I have a phenomenal Team of professionals which eases my transition into Author Awesomeness! Here you will find an attorney, personal life coach, beauty consultants, technical advisors and more. Some are individuals which personally assisted me during my self-discovery journey. Others are excellent resources to help you continue your journey to self-awareness.

    Our Partners

    For any questions or requests for interviews, guest speaking, book tours, etc. Please feel free to contact my publicist directly using the information below. I would love to come to an event! In the interim, here’s some useful information available for FREE. You are authorized to use this information for pending engagements. Thank you for dedication in continued awareness of domestic violence, abuse, sexual assault and workplace violence.

    Sarah Gilbert, Publicist & Business Development Associate
    Smith Publicity, Inc 1930 E. Marlton Pike
    Suite I-46 Cherry Hill NJ 08003
    Tel: 856-489-8654 ext. 317
    Email: sarahgilbert@smithpublicity.com

  • Our Location

    Gwendolen Wilder Author

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    It's Ok To Tell My Story

    In her spare time, Gwendolen works as an English language teacher, Sexual Harassment Compliance Training Instructor and encourages domestic violence victims at a local shelter to transition from addicts and victim to survivors. Gwendolen put her life experiences and her three degrees in Business Management, Social Services, and Applied Behav ioral Analysis to work developing checklists, action plans and providing resources to help readers break the cycle of abuse and live a survivor’ s life.

    Gwendolen get’s asked all the time, What makes your story different from another victims? The answer, Nothing and Everything. Nothing because, her story is not more important as the victim before or after her. Everything, because she’s being unapologetic and vulnerable using her particular story to tell other victims 'It's OK to tell their story'. In doing so, hopefully bringing awareness to end victim blaming and educating people that there still are many many more victims out there and as a society, We Must" do something about this.

    Gwendolen is single and at peace being the divorced parent to her awesome son, Donald Austin, and their puppy, Tank. She also went back to what she loves, which is counseling; she volunteered as a domestic violence group facilitator for Child Protective Service families, where she assisted with family reunification. Many people perceive domestic violence as not their problem because they don’t understand it or why victims choose to stay. Gwendolen is grateful to be able to share her fictional stories as a way of self-healing and in the hopes of helping other victims know they are not alone and that they are worthy to experience true love as God intended. Also, she wanted to arm friends, family, and coworkers with information to better understand domestic violence; this is why she is creating a self-management series.

    The self-management series will be non-fiction books that use serious and lighthearted tones to discuss being on a journey of self-awareness to improve personal development. The seriesfocuses on the total aspects of self-awareness: Physical, Mental, Emotional and Spiritual. The journey of self-awareness is a process and is not as easy as just wa lking to your car, it takes great resilience. Gwendolen uses her subject matter expertise and educational background in-conjunction with other resources and exercises, to inspire individuals in despair to break the cycles of low self-esteem, decreased happiness and discouragement.